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A brief selection of my experiences with mathematician, motorist and tenor extraordinaire Rosemary Dewey

Rosemary, who died of cancer on 21 September 2016, has been my special friend for over 23 years and we have had many moments of fun, creativity and special understanding.

Many a time we have helped each other in various ways and we have had marvellous dinners, holidays, concerts and choral experiences together.

She first came across me back in 1992 when I sang a solo at a concert in St Joseph’s Sale, (which she always remembered but - strangely - I didn’t!), but we didn’t actually meet in person until 1993, which was at a “Mostly Music” event.

She gave me a lift back to my flat in the basement of Chepstow House in the centre of Manchester and came in for a coffee.

I was totally unaware of her nervousness at that point - a basement flat with a strange man, oh Heavens! - I should have realised her nervousness when she performed a lovely little spoken recording of “no no no no no!” into my old computer.

 I confess that I have used that “no no no no no” as a “Windows sound” on my computer a few times over the following years!  …

But all was well!

(She often regaled other friends with that story over the years: how unaware I was of my innocence and how aware she was of the potential but non-existent peril! But all was well - I really am a “little innocent”, as she often said!)

In 1993 I moved to Sale, and Rosemary came over to visit quite frequently. Among other things, she liked my cooking and my music and she was quite appreciative of my cats, her favourite being Vusimuzi. And, of course, I loved her sense of humour, her musicality and her common sense!

She also appreciated my various computer skills which helped her (and, from time to time, I also helped her husband Jim, when he picked up various computer viruses). Given that she was a mathematics expert, I count such appreciation as a great compliment!

She was also a very skilled motorist and often took me to places where I, as a pedestrian, would otherwise perhaps not have gone …!

We were also involved in various concerts together. I think the first was Bernstein’s Chichester Psalms in Ormskirk in which Rosemary sang with the tenors, I sang the treble solo, and Jim was in the audience. Pity there is no recording of that….

Obviously we also cooperated in the 1994 premiere of the Manchester Magnificat - indeed she stayed valiantly awake with me while the instrumental parts were being printed in my flat one computer-testing night! And, of course, she sang in the Manchester Cathedral Cantata choir in the first performance at Manchester Cathedral.

In 1996, we both got involved in the Old Time Music Hall concert in Fallowfield.  That was a marvellous do and great fun!

We also met up with many of my friends over the years, including Keith whose 1994 housewarming we graced and with whom we went on holidays in the Lake District and in Prague, and Lissie and Sandra and Thomas, and Duncan, with whom we sang in Spain (Jimena de la Frontera) and Italy (Montecchio)

and so many others.

We sang in many choral situations - including the early music courses in Ambleside and Cambridge -

but there were two recordings in which we sang as duettists:

One was Dvorak’s song (in the German version) Das Vöglein

and the other was The Goslings

There are so many things I could mention. She has been so supportive in my life and I like to think that I have been supportive in hers.

May she rest in peace ….

Rosemary sings The Man who broke the bank at Monte Carlo at our Old Time Music Hall concert in 1996

Rosemary having a laugh during our choir trip to Montecchio

Rosemary on a lion in Sale

Rosemary in one of her red cars at Ralli Quays

Memories of Rosemary